Styling a Bookcase

My neighbor has impeccable taste. She is a graphic designer and I have always loved her clean lines and attention to detail. And her Ballard Design Sonoma bookcase. As sad as we were to see them leave the neighborhood in the fall, we were happy that they were only moving ten minutes away. And when she put the Sonoma up on Facebook for sale, I could not type Want! fast enough.

During the holidays, it held various Christmas decor and my Snow Village but after I packed it all away, Sonoma was barren and sad. Here and there I would pick something up in the house and move it over and today I can say that it is finally styled. I won't say curated because that word drives me bananas. Styled is borderline as it is.

So once again, I am so incredibly far from being any type of expert but I am going to share three tips today what works for me when styling our bookcase.

1. Stay away from dark colors and clutter.

It is easy to find affordable black and brown frames and decor of all shaped and sizes but I try to use them sparingly, otherwise your shelf will look dark and dated. A great place to find affordable, different picture frames is HomeGoods.My exception: My basset hound bookends from HomeGoods which are holding up my cherished Harry Potter.

I know it is tempting to cram as much as possible on your shelves, but I prefer a simple, non-layered look. Clutter makes my eye twitch.

2. Mix and match materials and don't forget the sparkle.  

As popular as gold is right now, I prefer a more classic mix of metals. Primarily because gold will eventually fall out of favor and I am too cheap to replace all of my knick knacks. But also because it adds interest. Also try to find items with texture, such as the round, studded frame below. I also like to mix and match crystal pieces through my decor to class up the joint. Crystal and animal print will look good with virtually any decor. You might be tempted to veer too match-matchy when picking out accessories. I am bad about that too. You don't have to decorate in only one color scheme, toss in a different color just for fun. Fight the urge to color coordinate!

3. Avoid the Pinterest trap. Choose items that you love, not just that look pretty and pinable.   

I love Pinterest. I love decor magazines. But I have a young family and I would rather fill up my shelves with pictures of them and things that represent us and the stage of life we are in. My biggest rule of decorating is and always will be: Decorate with what you love.

And if you want more inspiration, Tess over at Teatime with Tess is blogging today about her similar bookcase and how she styled it -- it is gorg!

In other Team Skelley news, if you are friends with me on Instagram (and if you are not, let's be), you might have seen that we have embarked on a big decor project: turning our playroom into a media/rec room. Now that we have a tween, our playroom is invaded by fifth graders every day -- seriously, they come out of the woodwork -- and we wanted to make them a space where they will be comfortable and have fun as they move into the middle school age. Having a media room has been The Engineer's dream since we moved in six years ago, so he is on board. We found an epic sectional at Costco yesterday for a steal but part of the reason that it is so inexpensive is because they do not deliver. Doh! I will keep you updated.

Happy Monday! We are taking a sick day today, this is usually my day in the Army Garrison but Little Kid has a nasty cough and we will be heading to the doctor soon. Poor munchkin sounds like a barking seal. Have a great week!


5 for Friday | Five things I learned at Disney

When planning our trip to Disney earlier this year, I consulted a lot of experts because I certainly am not one. They all had very valuable advice that I want to share today, along with some lessons learned ourselves.

And I will go ahead and say, these pictures have nothing to do with the lessons -- they are just my remaining photos from the trip if you are wondering why I am talking about ponchos and posting a picture of our hotel on a sunny day.

If you are currently planning a trip to Disney, I highly recommend the Port Orleans Riverside. It is a beautiful resort.

Before we left we used the multitude of gift cards that we received this Christmas to help pay for an iPad mini for Little Kid. It was our birthday gift to her and it was worth its weight in gold on this trip. She used it for long airport waits and to wind down at night in the hotel room after a long day. Two years ago before our road trip to Cincinnati, the kids used their birthday money, allowance and proceeds from selling their old iPad first gen to buy their original iPad Mini. It is a cherished member of the family that they love dearly and have argued over for the past two years. I hesitate to recommend that you buy your kids each an iPad to take on trips because that sounds jerky to me, but I will be perfectly honest: it makes traveling much, much easier.

Onto the lessons learned!

1. Eat breakfast in the room
I brought travel boxes of cereal and breakfast bars and grabbed some milk from the food court at our resort for breakfast. It saved both time and $$$, which enabled us to do a couple of character dinners while we were there. This is what I like about character dinners: you don't have to spend hours in the parks standing in line to meet your favorite character -- they come to you. And we found the buffets for both our character dinners at 1900 Park Fare at the Grand Floridian and Chef Mickey at the Contemporary to be delicious. But they were expensive, Lord, were they expensive. So be prepared to shell out for the Mickey Mouse table side service.

On the last morning, I did splurge on Mickey waffles. Because it is just not Disney without a Mickey waffle and a Mickey ice cream bar.

2. Dollar Tree ponchos
This came from my friend Cindy who took her kids to Disney World in September. Dollar Tree sells ponchos in tiny little bags, making them easy to pack in your day bag. Cindy buys two sets for her family so she doesn't have to lug around six wet ponchos all day. Once the rain passes, they chuck the ponchos because they have a backup set. I LOVED this idea.

3. Take breaks 

This is where personal philosophy comes into play. The Engineer and I are at odds on number three. He is a park open -- park close kind of guy. I think he feels that is how he is going to get his money's worth. Thank goodness that he had a sidekick on this trip who is all about rides. Little Kid did not agree with this philosophy. She was intimidated by the crowds and she is not a big walker. We knew this before the trip and I already planned to take her back to the room midday to rest. I will be perfectly honest, it could be frustrating at times. I snapped at her once. It was not my finest parenting moment. My recommendation here is to see the parks from the short people's POV. They are large and crowded with strangers and different. You have to stay flexible or you are not going to have a good time. We saw a lot of meltdowns on this trip (and they weren't always children).

I snapped this photo before we headed back to the room for a siesta before the Christmas light show at Hollywood Studios that night.

4. Don't waste your money on Magic Bandits
We bought the Muppet set and they were constantly falling off our Magic Bands. By the end of the trip, my Kermit was the only one left. Save your money.

5. Fast passes for dummies
I did not get the hang of the fast passes until the last day and only after pestering my friend Selena, who is the definitive expert on all things Disney. You can schedule three fast passes from your mobile device but you cannot add any more until all three are used. You cannot cancel and change one on the day you are in the park and you cannot add additional fast passes from your phone that day -- those must be done from a kiosk in the park. Even with fast passes, some rides are notoriously hard to get and their wait times are ridiculous. Case in point: The 7 Dwarves Mine Ride had a two hour and twenty minute wait time the day we were in the Magic Kingdom.

The hard to get Fast Passes: schedule them as soon as possible -- we were unable to get these:
--Seven Dwarves Mine Ride (Magic Kingdom)
--Peter Pan's Flight (Magic Kingdom)
--Soarin' (Epcot)
--Toy Story (Hollywood Studios) -- Little and I did this one and it was awesome! I was unable to get fast passes for the boys, though.

You have to go in with the mentality that you will not be able to do everything. Otherwise you will be disappointed. I was hard on myself for not being able to get fast passes for the above rides since Big Kid and The Engineer were all about the rides. I wanted them to experience everything but that is impossible on a four day trip. Or even a seven day trip, I am sure!

More lessons learned --

* Get there early & involve the kids in planning. This tip came from my friend Laurie who used to work at the Walt Disney Company. The kids both had the Disney app on their iPads so they could see what we had planned for the day and what they wanted to do. You would think that the crowds would diminish during the day as families get tired and leave WRONG! The mornings are a lot less crowded than the evenings.

If you can get there early, you can ride some of the popular rides without long waits and using up your fast passes. My mother also gave us several books that we consulted when planning our vacation. The best tip from "Ears of Steel:" Boatwrights at our hotel, the Port Orleans Riverside, was the second-best steakhouse in all of the resort. We can now concur with that statement.

* Crowd report websites are essential when planning. I also consulted my friend Angela who is a regular at the House of Mouse, but I definitely used the crowd report websites to plan our days. The middle of the week is the least-crowded time to visit. We went between New Years and the annual Disney World marathon, so crowds were not bad -- except in the Magic Kingdom, which I am convinced would be packed full in the middle of a hurricane.

Favorite Crowd Report: Undercover Tourist

* Dressing for Disney in the winter: layers, layers, layers. There are all kinds of fashion posts on Pinterest about what to wear to Disney World ... in the summer. Not so much in the winter. I am working on one right now but I will say that the weather is very unpredictable, so a wide variety of clothes are recommended. We were sweating on Sunday at Hollywood Studios, but then shivering during the Electrical Parade at the Magic Kingdom Monday night. Layers are your friend.

I barely scratched the surface of our experience at Disney World here but if you are planning an upcoming trip, I hope this was food for thought. Thank you for dropping by today and Happy Weekend!

One last photo of my favorite ride. 


Under the Milky Way | T4T

Are you watching Scorpion? We had meant to check it out for months and finally caught a couple of eps this week. I like it -- it reminds me of a lighter Alias. And you know that I am an Alias super fan. #spydaddyrocks

What does that have to do with this song from 1988? The last episode included "Under the Milky Way" and both The Engineer and I were like, man, we have not heard that song in forever. So I decided to feature it on the blog today. I think the last time I listened to it, I was an angsty co-ed. Ah, memories.

Happy Thursday!